Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Now where was I?




Now where was I?

I seemed to have lost my train of thought in the midst of the Newborn haze.

One minute we're wondering whether there will be pink or blue tags placed on the baby's tiny ankles and less than 3 hours later Flynn Alexander comes into the world and now only 13 days later he is just so loved and firmly entrenched into our family that I just can't imagine life without him.

I loved every minute of my 4 day Hospital "Holiday".  I've had all my babies there so spending time with the lovely Midwives was like being reacquainted with a bunch of old friends. Don't ask me how I spent my time though. The Birth Registration form was handed to me the night Flynn was born and I still haven't completed it. No spare time - so it's now been passed onto the Pianoman to deal with. I think there will be a lot more of that going on.


I also think I'm going to need some lessons in time management. Remember that book I was going to take to read? Well I'm still on page 10. I seemed to have been fixated on all the spare time I would have in Hospital by myself but forgot how time-consuming a Newborn was. Yep, the hours just get whittled away staring at him and touching his hair and kissing his little face. Then there's the hours of feeding followed by more baby staring. There was time spent with the other Kids and visits from friends. And in between shuffling down the corridor for ice packs and heat packs for my "battle-weary" body, there were menu cards to fill out, meals to eat, flowers to smell, calls to take and midnight movies to watch. It was bliss.



I emerged from the hospital and felt like I was entering the twilight zone. Everything felt different and even the once green Valley had turned Brown. Apparently I missed a heatwave and some horrid Bushfires.

We are home now and all settling in well. Flynn is feeding like a trooper and sleeping well, although it did take a good week to convince him we are in the Southern hemisphere and therefore he needs to sleep more at night than during the day. I'm up a couple of times at night which is standard but he settles straight back so I'm tired but not soooooo tired. I would hate to say that having a Newborn is easy, but I can categorically say that having just 1 baby IS so much easier than having Twins.


I'm trying to take things relatively easy but with older kids there is a certain element of just having to get on with life, business as usual. The day after I got home, Flynn's first outing was to swimming lessons followed by a quick trip to the Supermarket for some necessities. We have also celebrated a Birthday with The Pianoman becoming another year older and wiser and with an extra little Soul to love I'm glad the focus was off the lame 1/2 Mississippi Cheesecake that we celebrated with. No candles.



The Kids are adjusting really well though. Eleanor dotes on him like a mini Mum and makes me nervous the way she carries him around the house. The Boys are gorgeous with him too albeit slightly rougher. They cuddle and kiss him and their main concern is whether he is getting enough milk. The School year will finish up next week and I can't wait to have the 6 week Summer Holidays with everyone at home without all the rushing around and I know the older Kids feel like they are missing out a bit being at School while we are here soaking up our time with Flynn.



And it's December! And apparently it's 2 weeks until Christmas. I'm feeling rather festive but haven't bought a single present yet! I hope there is still time and that allowances will be made for me being a tad on the slack side this year. Are you all organised?

Finally, thank you all so so much for your beautiful comments on Flynn's arrival. It's overwhelming to have such wonderful support from people I've never met but consider my friends nevertheless. I really appreciate it so much!

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I also thought I should mention that I'm now (back) on Instagram (Coalvalleyview) thanks to a suggestion by a reader who doesn't have a Blog but uses Instagram instead - thanks Sarah! I'm still getting my head around the etiquette and will try not to duplicate photos onto my Blog too much but if any of you are on Instagram too please let me know :-)

Hope you all enjoy the rest of the week!


29 comments :

  1. Oh that last photo. Seriously too too precious what a gorgeous boy

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  2. Oh Mel, you are just amazing.
    A true natural.
    That boy is just gushy gushy gorgeous.
    So lovely to have an update from you.
    I'm in awe!
    xx

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  3. Oh Mel, Flynn is SOOOOO precious! I wish I lived closer so I could stop by for a cuddle. I can totally relate to the enjoying your hospital stay part... despite the ice packs and lack of sleep, I enjoyed my two stays too :) Your big girl looks like a definite mother hen... so adorable in those shots cradling her little brother. Take it easy Mel. Much love to your darling family x

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  4. Oh my! This brings it all back. The big kids in footy gear nursing the tiny one, the nerves when they carry the baby around, the timers they set up to check whose hold was next. You'd think number five would be a nervous wreck but nothing phases mine. I can also recall that feeling of how easy it all seemed with number five and how much easier one seems after twins. That bath photo made me want to speak to the big fella about number six!!! How happy you all look. Babies are such a wondrous gift. Enjoy the holidays. X

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  5. What a beautiful post and family you have. Love the baby pictures, he is a doll and understand the time spent gazing at him. Enjoy this special time with your new addition. Heather

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  6. You have such a beautiful family Mel. I love those days of settling in with a new baby. This post makes me feel so clucky, I would love another boy (or 2!) Have a wonderful Christmas x

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  7. Oh I'm crying here. Everyone of those photos is just plain gorgeous and your description of hospital and siblings and having no time brings everything back. Little Flynn looks like he's lapping up the attention! Your photos are just superb. I'm so, so, so happy for you. What a delightful, loving family. Christmas will be a blast! (Happy birthday father.)xo

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  8. Such a beautiful family. Flynn is such a darling. I am happy everything is going well. xx

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  9. oh my that last photos is just adorable! What a little sweetie.

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  10. You have a beautiful family and Flynn is adorable. I don't know how you have time to do anything. Two children was two too many for me! x

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  11. Hi Mel, so glad you popped up here to show us these amazing photos of little Flynn and the rest of the family..they are all gorgeous. Flynn is such a darling boy! I can remember when our no. 5 arrived and all of the excitement, tiredness and wonder that he caused at that time. I also have four boys and a girl and all that it brings..no regrets!

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  12. Flynn is just so beautiful! And he's adorable too!
    It's lovely how you've managed to capture the love that the whole family feels for him in your pictures.
    Take care, xx

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  13. Oh my goodness, that last photo! So gorgeous, it made me cry. Flynn is so tiny, beautiful, and precious. I love all the photos of the other kiddies with him. You are an amazing woman. Happy, happy thoughts to you and yours this Christmas season.

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  14. Oh he is so so loved isn't he? You can clearly tell how much they all adore him and how nice for you to have all those helpers. Enjoy the school holidays and the rest from all that usual busyness. mel x

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  15. I am in AWE of you Mel. Totally, in awe. Absolutely love this update of your beautiful BIG family. You were just meant to be a Mama of lots of lovely babies, you do it so well. What a perfect Christmas present for you all. Keep on enjoying little Flynn and I hope you and yours have an incredible Christmas... no doubt you most certainly will :) xoxo

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  16. Lovely to have a family update, I'd been wondering how you were all getting on! Enjoy the summer/Christmas break with your family, who needs presents when you have a cute little Flynn?! x

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  17. Oh my goodness, that last picture ... there's not an Awwwwww in the world big enough!

    So glad all is well with you guys ... the big kids look to be as besotted with young Flynn as his proud Mum and Dad (to whom a belated Happy Birthday).

    Christmas ... is it soon? ;)

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  18. Gorgeous baby, gorgeous children! That picture of your little girl holding her newborn brother just melted my heart. You must be so proud of your lovely family.
    Congratulations on the birth of your darling little one and wishing you and your family all the best for Christmas. There's nothing quite as special as having a newborn in the house. xxxx

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    1. Thanks so much for your lovely comment Stella. You are so right - there really is nothing nicer than a newborn in the house! Wishing you a fabulous Christmas also!

      Mel x

      PS Let me know if you have an e-mail address so I can reply directly to you :-)

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  19. Amazing. I'm so glad it's all going well. And you have my permission to completely outsource Christmas this year! Xx

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  20. Great family pictures. He is too cute.

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  21. Glad to hear all is well. Love the photos you all look so happy and the Piano man looks so proud.

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  22. So beautiful Mel - you are amazing!

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  24. Oh Sweetheart I can't wait to meet your little man ☺. J x

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  25. So precious! Congratulations on the baby:) I've had my son on Dec. 17 and I recall that holiday season being exceptionally busy, exhausting, and filled with emotion. Beautiful photos of the family.

    First time stopping by your blog! Enjoy the holiday and wishing you and your family a wonderful new year.

    leslie

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  26. Hi Mel,
    Flynn is so adorable, he makes me a little clucky :)
    These early days can be rather exhausting so go easy on yourself.
    Tammi x

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  27. It sounds like life is wonderful and busy all rolled into one. I hope that you are enjoying having everyone home and on holidays. Have a very merry Christmas. I love the last photo of Flynn, just beautiful. xx

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